Back in the dating game, only one thing I never really got..

[Alexnova]

Do you bring something on the first date for the girl, a rose, chocolates, stuffed animal or some cheesy shit? Or is that just pathetic looking?

We've been chilling for awhile, been to my place twice now in a row, up till 3 am texting some shit. Movie night tomorrow and date on Wednesday.

Thought Id make the first date a little special than normal.

Damn I tell you that ex-fiancee breakup was like the best thing ever man, no idea why I was upset over that. Ya live and learn.

[dj3stripes]

condoms.

everything else, is just emotional foreplay that nobody needs/cares about.

[Nate]

Don't bring anything.

[fatlip]

game face

[Alexnova]

Hahahahaha gameface, love it.

Got her to come over for a movie. We cuddled, held hands, made out all that bs. Still hasn't told me if she likes me or whatever, she shy? She keeping her options open?

[$lmjimy311]

looks like she likes ya at least a little

[Alexnova]

Maybe waiting for the date on Wednesday *shrugs*. If she's taking this slow about opening up probably for the best, she said she is hard to trust guys and wants to get to know them more before committing to something.

[fatlip]

thursday. definitely thursday.

[Jordan311]

thursday. definitely thursday.

[$lmjimy311]

thursday. definitely thursday.

i laughed so hard at both of these

[Alexnova]

Hahaha love that pic.

I think she is nervous about being with a guy again after one of my friend's kinda screwed her over. And that friend is my best friend, she might be worried if she will come between us or I might just be like him.

She just doesn't open up with how she feels about things, and I am slightly intrigued as to why. I know she's hiding something and is afraid to say it but I don't read minds. Just going with the flow, but I just get the vibe she is confused on what she wants. Can't fix that, all on her.

We'll see what happens, I have a gut feeling she might bail on Wednesday's date, and if so I'm not pursuing.

[Nate]

How old are you now?

[$lmjimy311]

woa woa woa...you're going after your best friend's girl? thats serious breach of man law my friend. did you get his permission?

[$nipe]

Get her a candy bar.

[Alexnova]

whoa jimy, no my friend dated her a year ago and broke up way before I became interested. In fact before I did pursue anything I talked to him about it just to make sure there were no feelings between them. I talked to her last night about it too, and she was just worried she would come between us and I made it pretty clear that wouldn't happen.

Yeah I wouldn't pull that kind of shit though, I'm better than that.

[Shiny]

there's always some dramatic twist to your romance stories that you either seem naive to or just make excuses for until the one day when you say 'what was i thinking' just a 6+ year observation.

[Alexnova]

I guess I fall for these dramatic plot twists unfortunately. It can never be perfect for me. I hope someone makes a story of my life, it would be the worst best romance novel ever made, plottwists that would confound the hell out of you if you try to make logical sense out of them.

[Nate]

How old are you?

[$lmjimy311]

gotcha, nova, as long as you've spoken with your boy its all good. im the type of person where i just find it weird to get with a friends girl and vice versa. my friends and i have a strict no policy when it comes to that unless its like love.

and as dramatic as alex's stories are...they will never beat the king, Sayzak

[Alexnova]

Nate what the hell are you alluding to?

Yeah I mean I think it's totally disrespectful to go after a girl that your friend is dating or what have you. I had to make sure nothing was going on between them, he was just hanging on to her as a booty call and she knew that. I just had to lay it out that I was interested in her and liked her, and after I said that he didn't want to come between us.

He's been burning through women like crazy, it's sad because he is breaking alot of hearts along the way. Including my sister's.

Oh btw date went great today, am exhuasted but had alot of fun. Date 2 should be next week.

OMG I MISS SAYZAK. I loved his stories. If I thought I overthink things, he's seriously the Plato of overthinking, it sucks too.