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Tehshewz wrote:
Alexnova wrote:Just got my word that my ex is engaged. :roll:
The real kicker is when she gets prego in......id say about another week.

Then you sir, win.
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fatlip wrote:
Tehshewz wrote:
Alexnova wrote:Just got my word that my ex is engaged. :roll:
The real kicker is when she gets prego in......id say about another week.

Then you sir, win.
first time we're agreeing ever
Hey, who said we would always needed to hate on each other :D
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Tehshewz wrote:
Alexnova wrote:Just got my word that my ex is engaged. :roll:
The real kicker is when she gets prego in......id say about another week.

Then you sir, win.


I'd be surprised if that old guy she's with now is even able to get a boner, let alone impregnate someone.


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A bit of an update if anyone cares:

Well I guess I shouldn't have said girlfriend originally, since it wasn't quite that status yet. However we are still dating each other, try to squeeze in time to see each other when possible since our schedules aren't synced up. It's alot of fun, and I don't feel committed to her in a sense because I ended up stating that I wasn't too interested in a serious relationship right now since I just got out of one.

On my days off I'm just doing my hobbies, reconnecting with friends, and doing things that make me happy without being in a relationship. Like I said before I'm having alot of fun with this new girl, although getting myself back is a bit more important to me.

I think Vibe said something about using this girl just because it feels good being wanted. It's nice getting wanted again, but right now I'm just enjoying having fun with this other person.

Eventhough I've been seeing this one girl, I am interested in two other women. That's not to say this first one is bad, but I think it might be good to explore my options a bit more.


I also feel emotionally done with my ex, I no longer feel sad about what happened or upset anymore. It took time and alot of introspection to realize that the breakup was all in my favor...looking back on it, it was probably the best thing that ever happened to me.
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I have a question for some of you guys who suggested that I give my ex a verbal ass rape, and beat the shit out of her new BF:

Shouldn't karma take care of that? I mean I understand she deserves it and all, but wouldn't that come back to bite me in the ass as well? Which is why I never did any of that stuff, and kept my cool. I guess I figured I was a much bigger person than that. Although without a doubt it was ridiculously hard not to.
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Alexnova wrote:I have a question for some of you guys who suggested that I give my ex a verbal ass rape, and beat the shit out of her new BF:

Shouldn't karma take care of that? I mean I understand she deserves it and all, but wouldn't that come back to bite me in the ass as well? Which is why I never did any of that stuff, and kept my cool. I guess I figured I was a much bigger person than that. Although without a doubt it was ridiculously hard not to.
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karma doesn't actually exist.. but its still better to be the bigger man
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the only reason karma kinda works is because people who piss people off on a regular basis end up getting fucked. sometimes.
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The only thing I have against karma is what kind of karma did I have to deserve the kind of break up I was just handed 3 months ago as well. We had a similar one, so what kind of karma did you have to deserve it. I wasn't mr. perfect, but we were probably all around good guys who had our girlfriend's interest and emotion first at hand.
Eh, that verbal ass rape really is not worth it because it will just strengthen her belief as to the reason why she lost interest in you and it will go one ear and out the other. You probably have some trash on her that would embarrass her, but it would embarrass you as well to look like that type of person. I've had the feeling of wanting to beat the shit out of the guy who took my girl away from me. But, the fault really lies with your girlfriend for allowing herself to wrong you the way she did and grow feelings for someone else while dragging you around the relationship. That rage would probably build up like a mother fucker if you saw them together in person though.
It's difficult knowing you're the one depressed as shit while it seemed like she was riding away into the sunset with someone new, but that shit won't last and if you treated her right then she will regret what she did. How she reacts to that regret is hard to know, but she will regret it none the less at one point.
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