Ugggh
- Alexnova
- Taiyed Brodel
- Posts: 7984
- Joined: Wed Jun 08, 2005 12:50 am
- Location: Countdown To Armageddon
- Contact:
Ugggh
What the fuck is wrong with me, so this girl that I really like at work...well this is what she said to me
"How come you don't talk to me?"
And I fucking stumbled to come up with answer, I said some bullshit or whatever and left. Then she tells one of my co-workers "Is he mad at me? Do I tease him too much (well because shes always trying to get me mad as a joke, but doesnt work)?"
I don't what the fuck to do, and I just get so weird around her. Like I feel if I don't look like my absolute best, I'll try and avoid her.
"How come you don't talk to me?"
And I fucking stumbled to come up with answer, I said some bullshit or whatever and left. Then she tells one of my co-workers "Is he mad at me? Do I tease him too much (well because shes always trying to get me mad as a joke, but doesnt work)?"
I don't what the fuck to do, and I just get so weird around her. Like I feel if I don't look like my absolute best, I'll try and avoid her.
- Jordan311
- Phlegmatic in stature
- Posts: 15074
- Joined: Sat Apr 09, 2005 2:56 am
- Location: Double Vision Quest
- Contact:
Re: Ugggh
Jordan311 wrote:you seem like an awkward guy so whatever you decide to do will probably be awkward...
Why don't you just tell her you like her then? Doesn't seem like you have much to lose at this point..
Later
- Jordan311
- Phlegmatic in stature
- Posts: 15074
- Joined: Sat Apr 09, 2005 2:56 am
- Location: Double Vision Quest
- Contact:
Re: Ugggh
ohhhh yeah I forgot about the whole she's-taken factor.
Well. Yeah there's not really much you can do, I'm gonna be honest. As long as you think there's some sort of pressure on you to make a move, you're going to feel like you're being awkward around her. I guess your best bet would just be to accept her as a friend for now, and just don't stress anything past trying to maintain a playful friendship with her.
And if there's more that's meant to happen, it will unfold naturally as you get to know her more, but you're not really in a position to make anything happen, y'know? Unless you're some sort of Rico Suave, and it doesn't seem like that's the case with this girl.
Go listen to All Mixed Up. haha
Later
Well. Yeah there's not really much you can do, I'm gonna be honest. As long as you think there's some sort of pressure on you to make a move, you're going to feel like you're being awkward around her. I guess your best bet would just be to accept her as a friend for now, and just don't stress anything past trying to maintain a playful friendship with her.
And if there's more that's meant to happen, it will unfold naturally as you get to know her more, but you're not really in a position to make anything happen, y'know? Unless you're some sort of Rico Suave, and it doesn't seem like that's the case with this girl.
Go listen to All Mixed Up. haha
Later
- $nipe
- Taiyed Brodel
- Posts: 5735
- Joined: Sat Mar 11, 2006 11:04 am
- Location: San Salvador, El Salvador
Re: Ugggh
"O HAI. Sorry I haven't been talking to you lately, I think I've been sucked up by all these issues and shit. You know how stress is, brings out the worst in you, so yeah. But I don't want you thinking I'm acting weird or anything, it really doesn't have anything to do with you. So I'll be a good person and let you take me out for a cup of coffee. If you do, I'll love you forever. Or for a little while. Better than nothing, I guess."
In fact, you can use that unstable shit you've been pulling around her as a way of showing her you're actually a human being with emotions. Chicks dig it. Just act like yourself. Women dig losers (sometimes).
Haha, just kidding! Try to keep it calm, you'll see that you'll do great. (:
In fact, you can use that unstable shit you've been pulling around her as a way of showing her you're actually a human being with emotions. Chicks dig it. Just act like yourself. Women dig losers (sometimes).
Haha, just kidding! Try to keep it calm, you'll see that you'll do great. (:
- Vibe Merchant
- Taiyed Brodel
- Posts: 1354
- Joined: Thu Apr 28, 2005 9:56 pm
Re: Ugggh
http://taiyedbrodels.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4801" onclick="window.open(this.href);return false;
Learn from my mistakes. Be confident. I know how you feel, if you read that thread above you can see no matter how many times people said be confident or be yourself, it never seemed to work. I couldn't help but be insecure and nervous, judging every step i made and every word that came out of my mouth. It is just something that will grow out of you. It will grow a lot quicker if you just realize what YOU want and through down everything and engage this girl.
If you really get this nervous over a girl then there is also a side of you that will get motivated to get this girl.
Learn from my mistakes. Be confident. I know how you feel, if you read that thread above you can see no matter how many times people said be confident or be yourself, it never seemed to work. I couldn't help but be insecure and nervous, judging every step i made and every word that came out of my mouth. It is just something that will grow out of you. It will grow a lot quicker if you just realize what YOU want and through down everything and engage this girl.
If you really get this nervous over a girl then there is also a side of you that will get motivated to get this girl.
the only thing true, we gotta love each other. try to keep a positive vibe.
they make it tough for ya. you're cut off and lonely while you hustle for dough.
we can overcome the wrongs while we're reachin' the point.
stick together all forever. now continue to flow
they make it tough for ya. you're cut off and lonely while you hustle for dough.
we can overcome the wrongs while we're reachin' the point.
stick together all forever. now continue to flow
Re: Ugggh
I wish I could even be in the position where I legitimately liked a girl...for the right reasons
"Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence"
Re: Ugggh
I'm probably better than you, honestly.
"Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence"